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The
following story first appeared in the Vancouver Sun, Saturday August
14th, 1999. It
is reprinted with permission, courtesy of the Vancouver Sun. www.vancouversun.com
A Higher
Calling
Story by Doug
Ward
Ben
Kramer, deriving a fierce and wondrous energy from his autism, swims
from one Gulf Island to another and communes with eagles in
treetops.
You sense
something is unusual when you first meet Ben Kramer, the caretaker at
Bradsdadsland Campsite on Hornby Island. You're not sure why. It's
not his unkempt look: long uncombed hair, the wild beard. This is
Hornby after all, one of the counterculture's last redoubts.
It's more his
clipped speech pattern, the rapid fire bursts of detail. But, then,
it's not the way he's talking. It's what he's talking about. Like
when he invites you to watch him feed the eagles. Or the way he
insists on giving you a tour of of the camp site. You tell him that
it's okay but he's already striding away. Barefoot.
The tour
meanders through the well-groomed grounds and ends at the foot of a
towering old-growth Douglas Fir. The eagles, he says, will fly to
him at the top. He begins to clamber upward. His perch at the top is
about 50 metres above a rocky shoreline. He's one cracked branch
away from death but you have no doubt he will make it up and down.
You can tell he's got a different mental hard drive. His own
vertigo-less autopilot.
It makes sense
later when you learn that he has autism. It's all part of the story
of Ben Kramer, 43-year-old tree climber eagle, photographer, son of
Holocaust survivors. His is an archetypical Gulf Island story about
an offbeat person flourishing in an off-kilter world. The Gulf
Islands have long attracted refugees and rebels. They are places
where people can turn what was a weakness or a disability into a
strength. Ben is part of this tradition.
Most days at
Bradsdadsland, summer campers are treated to the spectacle of Ben
scaling the Douglas Fir, from branch to branch, barefoot. To the
campers below, it's a high-wire act with no room for mistakes. But
Ben carries it off with the nonchalance of a guy striding across a
putting green to retrieve a golf ball from the cup. There's a
constant smile on his face.
``I'm not
afraid. If I know I am secure from falling, I have no fear. I've
done it so many times. I've climbed trees all my life.''
Isaac said
that autistic people have a lower sense of fear and danger than most
people. ``But something magical seems to be happening. Usually
eagles won't get near people.''
Once Ben
reaches the top, he removes his back pack and pulls out a fish or
some roadkill. It's his cue to the eagles living in another fir
about 20 metres away. One of the eagles leaves its aerie and swoops
toward Ben, who has become a familiar provider. As the eagle
approaches to snatch the food, Ben grabs his camera and snaps. His
eagle photographs are displayed in shops and galleries on the
island.
His most
memorable encounter with the eagles came one day last year when Ben
noticed from his perch that one of the eagles' babies was missing.
Ben searched through the underbrush beneath the tree, found the
young eagle, and carried it back up to its nest in a bulky sports
good bag. As he moved to place the eagle in its nest, another baby
eagle fell out in shock at the sight of Ben. Fortunately, it fell
only a few branches below. Ben climbed down and retrieved the bird.
On his way back, a branch cracked to the horror of the spectators
below. Ben instinctively shifted to another branch and completed the
rescue. His mission was watched by a group of campers. One of them
caught the whole exercise on video tape, which Ben loves to play for
people.
- - -
Ben is a
high-functioning autistic, unusual but hardly rare! His story shows
how early intervention by caring adults can teach many autistics how
to negotiate the world. It also proves that the best treatment for
autism is inclusion and integration into the community. Autism is a
developmental disability that typically appears during the first
three years of life. The result of a neurological disorder that
affects brain function, autism and its associated behaviours occur in
about one in 500 people. Its symptoms can present themselves in a
wide variety of combinations, from mild to severe. Children with
autism often appear relatively normal in their development until the
age of 24-30 months, when parents may notice delays in language,
play or social interaction. Language develops slowly or not at all. Behaviour
may be overactive or very passive.
That something
was different about Ben became apparent when he was about two years
old, growing up in Montreal. He was aggressive and barely spoke. A
few years later his mother died. His father, Abraham Kramer, was
already carrying the burden of a time-consuming fur business. And he
bore the psychic pain of having narrowly survived the Holocaust. He
opted to place his autistic son in a foster home.
The foster
parents, Ruth and Willy Weber, raised Ben like one of their own. ``I
did many bad things every day,'' Ben says. ``Some people wanted to
put me in a lock-up home. But Mrs. Weber, she thought I was a normal
fellow. She figured she could raise me up. She had me like a son.''
Her biggest challenge was teaching Ben how to speak. ``When I was
10, she told me that if I didn't learn then, I would never learn. I
went to speech therapy and began to understand more.''
In the summer
Ben would attend special camps. It was at one in upstate New York
that he learned to swim. Fifteen times he has entered the 43-km
endurance test that is the New York Marathon swim. He has finished
13 of them, spending about nine hours in the water each time.
Tomorrow he's entered in the Nigel Miller West Vancouver Seaside
Classic, a three-km swim that starts at Ambleside Beach, and on
Wednesday he plans a solo crossing of the Strait of Georgia.
- - -
As you might
expect, there is a story behind the name of the campground,
Bradsdadsland, where Ben works as a caretaker. The Brad in
Bradsdadsland is Ben's brother Isaac, who called himself Brad for a
time after arriving on the West Coast from Montreal. It was part of
his search for a new identity. The dad in Bradsdadsland is Abraham
Kramer, who was born and raised in a small Jewish shtetl in Poland.
At the outset
of the Second World War, Abraham joined Stalin's Red Army, was
captured as a POW and spent most of the war working as a farm labourer
for a convent in the German Rhine Valley. Abraham met his
wife, another Polish Jew, in a camp for displaced people after the
war. They emigrated to Canada in 1949. They had three boys: David,
who died at eight, Isaac and Ben. Abraham became a prosperous
furrier in Montreal. He had lost virtually his entire family
including seven sisters and all his cousins. He rarely talked about
the war but it haunted him for the rest of his life.
Haunted his
family too. ``There were so many unspoken things in our family,''
recalled Isaac Kramer. ``There was a profound sadness to my father.
He had lost everyone he knew, he lost his eldest son and his
youngest son turned out to be autistic.''
To find a new
life, away from his family's pain, Isaac moved to the West Coast in
the late '70s. He had no interest in taking over his father's fur
business. So his father decided to invest his money in B.C. real
estate to provide for his sons' futures. In 1980, Abraham bought a
piece of waterfront property on Hornby, which because of its ocean
view and cathedral of alder used to be the island's lovers lane.
Isaac eventually turned it into Bradsdadsland Campsite.
``I came out
West to recreate the world I missed as a kid. That's why
Bradsdadsland is a perfect world. It's out of the picture book
that's in my head. Hornby,'' he said, ``is a place for people to
either remake themselves or seek shelter.'' Hornby did allow Isaac
to reinvent his life, which he now leads in West Vancouver. The
island became, as well, a place of reinvention for Ben Kramer, who
arrived here nine years ago, just after his father Abraham died.
``A lot of
Ben's abilities to do the things he does derive from the fact that
Hornby is a respite,'' said Isaac. And so, to the Hornby locals he's
become the eagle photographer at Bradsdadsland. The fearless scuba
diver called ``Ben the Deep.'' The marathon swimmer who can stroke
to nearby Denman Island and back to Hornby.
And the man
who never wears shoes. He goes shoeless when he drives or shops at
Hornby's co-op store, when it's bushy or prickly underfoot, when he
climbs to see the eagles. Ben has been barefoot since he was 14,
recalled Isaac Kramer. ``We all let everybody know how we want to be
treated. So we send out signals that we are not what you expect.
It's Ben's way of saying that I'm a bit of a one of a kind.''
Doug Ward is a
Vancouver Sun reporter.
Kate Bird
Librarian
Pacific
Newspaper Group (The Vancouver Sun and The Province)
200 Granville
Street
Vancouver,
B.C.
Canada V6C 3N3
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605-2699
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